Focusing on Here, Not There

There is the place we’d rather be. There is where the money is at. There is where you can prove yourself. There is where the grass is greener. Much greener. Have you ever realized that we are always wanting to go there? We’re always preparing for moving from here to there. The next promotion. The next pay raise. The next …

“Is It Necessary?” – A Truly Unhelpful Question

If this question is ever asked, the answer is usually┬áno. When we ask “Is it necessary?”, we are asking if something is absolutely required for survival. Is food necessary? Yes, but not three meals a day. Is water necessary? Yes, but humans can survive for days without it. Is oxygen necessary? Yes, but we can hold our breath for a …